Potty Mouth the Roots and Payoffs of Workplace and Other !#@!-Bombs

Potty Mouth the Roots and Payoffs of Workplace and Other -Bombs Fur-letter expletives accidentally overheard or willfully overdone, deleted and undeleted, including F-bombs, once only thinkableleid utterablein most public arenas, are now commonplace where not already the dominant, if not exclusive, idiom. Paralleling the decades-long mass erosion of civility and decorum, this explosion of obscenity makes the single F-bomb dropped in Beat-poet Alan Ginsbergs 1957 poem Howl which entangled him in a Federal obscenity trial now seem yawningly tame and all TV programming before1960, like the super-popular Mama, Father Knows Best and Leave it to Beaver, painfully lame.So, what happened? Why such a massive shift toward F-bomb freighted and other communicationand why among the pre-employed young and on-the-job adults, irrespective of collar color?Heres a look at some likely causes and payoffs, bearing in mind that what happens in the mainstream culture tends to seep into the workplace1. Androgyny Its fair to speculate that one factor driving the wider use and acceptance of F-bombs is the masculinization of female speech and behavior in various cultures, e.g., the English-speaking world, as a step toward linguistic and other androgynya blurring or blending of male and female traits, including physical appearance, behavior, and domainsin an individual or species. Such masculinization of language has more than one manifestation One Australian study compared recordings of young Australian women in the 18-25 age group, reciting passages from Shakespeare in 1945, with recordings of the same passages read by women, 18-25, in 1993 and found that, on average, the pitch of young womens voices had dropped significantly over the years, more closely resembling male voices.To the extent that the drop blurred the vocal boundaries between males and females, it welches, like gender-blind use of obs cenities, a kind of androgenization.In cultural or social groups or among individuals that have adopted a masculinized form of equality, old taboos against females dropping F-bombs have been dropped. leid only does this potentially double the number of people who sound like Eddie Murphy Raw it also removes one of the brakes traditionally inhibiting themnamely, the presence of vulgarity-averse females. Note and warning Not only does Murphy drop da Bomb throughout the clip cited above, he also does it in his robust portrayals of masculinized male-bashing American women he favors as a comedic foil.In fact, that brake is replaced by an accelerator, when the confirmation and exercise of female equality appear to be best accomplished by dropping an F-bomb, now a commonplace occurrence in all-female as well as mixed groups.2. Dumbing-down by design It can be argued that, like much of pop culture, the exaltation of expletives at the expense of more precise, accurate and enlightening communi cation, serves the dark purpose of dumbing us down, e.g., to make us more malleable, less discerning, less aware and less critical consumers, workers or citizens.As Edward L. Bernays, nephew of Sigmund Freud and the father of propaganda and PR, explained in Propaganda, a truly critical populace would be both ungovernable and unsellable, paralyzed by endless squabbling deliberation upon and sorting of countless competing ideas, products and policies.As that population expands and comes to resemble an ever-bigger Tower of Babel mob, such critical awareness threatens chaos of discord, dissent and indecision.So, Bernays argued, to streamline political, cultural and economic life, simplification or elimination of thought through the skillful use of propaganda and snappy slogans is a useful, indeed inevitable, step.Examining any four-letter bomb, youll find that, if you were to translate it into the underlying articulated rationalewhen there is one for using it in any given situation, you d learn a whole lot more and be less uncertain as to what prompted it. But that requires thoughtful thinking, of the kind propagandists and controllers want to discourage.Imagine calmer, more reflective, patient, detailed and polite roadside discourse instead of the unleashed 4-letter fury of road rage. Likewise, being told that your resume or social media networking is crap which barely nudges the vulgarometer is a shabby hot-bullet substitute for a detailed enlightening ray-of-light critique.In other words, F-bombs and their ilk are designed to shed heat, not light and to replace thought with feelingin virtually every instance. So, more feeling than thinking means less engagement of the mind and the moralsof either the speaker or the listener.Obscenities are generally concise except when, like political slogans, endlessly repeated, which is, alas, too much of the time and therefore rarely preciseprecision being the arch-enemy of those who would manipulate us, e.g., through adverti sing or political propaganda, such as labeling your enemies and scapegoats cockroaches, a product as better than others? than it was before?, or a candidate as a leader for tomorrowCrudity also means a more limited, far less nuanced vocabulary that, in its most extreme instances, perpetuates the unthinking habits it manifests, usually by replacing clear, abstract, empirical and logical thinking with standardized, metaphorical, vulgar, persistent and always-puzzling references to body parts and functions.Through its use of F-bombs and other profanity, the entertainment industry doubles down on dumbing down First, it dumbs us down with dumb content devoid of depth, insight or relevance then, having turned off the light, it has to turn up the heat. So, we end up with endless and mindless car chases, crashes and F-bombs to narrate and embellish them.The office may not be as entertaining or adrenalin-pumped as an action movie, but it can follow a similar dumbing-down script and agenda. F or example, if a boss, dissatisfied with staff performance, explodes with a tirade of expletives, shes, of course, saving time and energy, and capitalizing on the intimidation effect of expletivesor so imagines.But this can also be a deliberate or unconscious dumbing-down tacticto inhibit reflection, discussion, analysis, negotiation, etc. It also explains why we never say, If you cant take the light, get out of the kitchen. Its the heat that seems to matter to and control us more. The potty-mouth boss or office bully knows that.3. Use of disrespect to win respect At some point after WWII, many Americans seemed to begin to think that winning respect from everyone and anyone is not only necessary but also can be achieved primarily by being blatantly disrespectful and using what was initially taboo language whenever they wanted to.After all, only someone who could get away with it would use itand that person must, of course, be powerful, important, avant-garde, independent, anti-hero, good-looking, rich or cool enough to do that.As objective justifications for the respect sought and believed deservedincluding because one has a fantastic job, career pride and advancement, accumulated wealth, distinctive accomplishments, special qualifications and stand-out identitieshave become harder to achieve and produce, the need for that respect has become more desperate, more intensely felt, driven by mounting frustration, and more relentless.Hence, the bizarre F-bomb-laced demand for respect from thug low-lifes, e.g., hockey rioters, who deserve it least.With anger and frustration in the mix, you get a perfect powder-keg for F-bomb detonation. Its an explosive combination of an unmet need for respect + anger + frustration + empowerment or permission to be disrespectful.Post-WW II generational marketing to teens and tweens, trumpeting their privilege, purchasing power and social entitlement, has done nothing to prevent, damp or reverse this or to suggest that talking to one s parents that way is somehow not right or anything but cool.By contrast, within the client-professional relationship, respect is still generally won the old school way politely, civilly and decorously, especially when the professional isnt the boss, and while the client in the office is.Thats perhaps why it is a virtual certainty that not a single profanity will make its way into an S.A.T, Myers-Briggs, G.M.A.T., L.S.A.T., bar exam or Miller Analogies testtests designed to assess intellectual and professional competencies and suitability.In instances when the boss, gangsta rapper or stand-up comic F-bombs others, it may reasonably be inferred that the purpose is to win respect by demonstrated privilege, right, immunity, impunity, intimidation, generational solidarity, visceral authenticity or the confident unconcern of a dominantwhich are estimated by the mouth if not the brain to more than offset the appearance of coarseness or unsophistication.Revealingly, in various professional settings, the risks associated with such power moves are, despite the appearance of uncontrolled spontaneity or impulsiveness, very carefully calculated, with a green light to go for it only when it seems safe.For example, Comedy Centrals otherwise expletive-festooned parody-news hit, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, dramatically tones things down in its interview segmentsoften because of the seriousness of the topics and the power and influence of the guests, e.g., Senators, authors and A-list celebrities and, more generally, because of their client-guest status.Interestingly, the Daily Shows on-the-job supporting characters, e.g., Samantha Bee, obscenely savage those they interview, even when they are interviewing powerful, albeit mocked and derided, politicians, organizational spokespersons and bureaucrats.This is quite unlike what happens with host Jon Stewart or the equally brilliant Oxford-grad John Oliver, who recently filled in for Stewart when in interview mode. In those h igh-profile interview segments, the tone is deferential and polite, more like a staid Edward R. Murrow 50s interview or an ordinary sit-down between a lawyer and client.Obviously, the reason for the difference and lack of deference in those hatchet interviews is that indeed this is what they are expected to be hatchet jobs on intervieweesnot guestsbeing held up to ridicule.Hence, professional potty mouthing is not entirely uncontrollable, despite any appearance to the contrary. In fact, despite whatever appearance of spontaneity or habit fusillades of F-bombs create, they are, in general, and not just in programming, carefully calculated and calibrated with respect to context, audience, degree and impactjust as we all, except the truly unhinged, carefully select to whom and to what level we dare vent our anger.4.Dr. Spock permissiveness Some blame more permissive parenting of the kind advocated by Dr. Benjamin Spock in post-war Americain part as a reaction to the earlier, popularize d sterner views of behaviorist J.B. Watson, who urged parents to withhold physical affection Never hug and kiss them, never let them sit on your lap. If you must, kiss them once on the forehead when they say goodnight. Shake hands with them in the morning.Such a stern home environment must have given frustrated kids an understandable incentive to drop F-bombs, while instilling extreme fear of doing so.It may be speculated that, psychoanalytically speaking, the swinging of the parenting pendulum toward permissiveness allowed contemplation of the possibility that parental figures could be challenged, or at least not revered, in an unconscious uptick in the Oedipal battle for supremacy.Indeed, anti-war youth protests of the 60s and 70s, and the audacious outing and displacement of the penultimate American father figure, the POTUS, Richard Nixon, by young Spock-era journalists suggests there may be something to that conjecture. Ditto for the increase in blasphemy and religious parody.Wh en F-bombs are shocking, what better way to disrespect and challenge the power establishment and parents than to verbally blast them off their pedestals, using language that either they would never use or which you can co-opt? Its hard to imagine an F-laced outburst at a 19th-century Prussian dinner table presided over by a stern mustachioed Watsonian patriarch who looked and acted like the Kaiser.For comparison, I recently watched one YouTube-posted episode of the aforementioned hugely popular 50s U.S. TV showMama, and was stunned by the dinner-table politeness, deference and tie-and-jacket attire of the teenage son, not to mention the absence of any expletive even as strong as goshOf course, both the Prussian and the Norwegian-immigrant Mama TV family were fundamentally patriarchal or duumvirate rule by two in structurethe father being the sole breadwinner and dominant power figure beyond challenge, with Mama being the full-time day-time disciplinarian.Even when led by parents as generally gentle as Lars the father and Mama in the Mama series, these families were, above all, discipline and decorum focused, with a stronger emphasis on the privileges and limited permissions of children than on their indulgences, entitlements or imagined grievances.In contrast to what happens in many modern households, an unthinkable dinner-time F-bomb dropped by one of their kids in 1911 would have precipitated either a heart attack or wooden-spoon smack based on a venerable, quintessentially American tradition and conviction.That the parental 2nd-amendment right to bear and smack arms trumped a childs 1st-amendment right to free speech.